Thanks Spartan for catching up on my posts.

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One thing on 5LL, it's a great book and I would recommend everybody read it.
Just finished reading it last night, and it shocked me. I realised my actions of showing love were Acts of Service, Quality Time (but more in the sense of spending time together), and Physical Touch (in a sexual sense). But I think my W are probably, Words of Affirmation, Quality Time (as in listening and remembering), and Physical Touch (the more loving, affectionate ones). How wrong could I have got this! Problem is I am confused as to how this can help me now our R is in this state.

Me: 38 W: 35
M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs
S8 D5
BD: Feb 13
Still Living Together

I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.