Hi again everyone!! Wish I had time to address each of you who have posted individually, but please know that I really appreciate your thoughts. Quick update--had a difficult weekend--W having second thoughts-questioning whether we really should be trying to save M. I ventured perhaps she might want to pick a book to read togather to see what the response might be. She agreed and we are taking turns reading to each other..Guess which book she picked. Love Languages. We have both read it before individually-takes on new meanings to read it togather. Hopefully I will have a chance to formally assemble goals and post those before long..Have to run and read. thanks folks for the support. Harv