At the end of the day its something she has flagged, but its also something i know is a fault of mine which i wish to improve on for myself. If i do end up with somebody else at the end of this rather than W, i need to make sure I tackle these issues now, so I don't end up in the same place in another 15 years!
Does that make sense at all?
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Just to touch on this a little here....
You came from the factory, pre-built with an indicator that lets you know what to work on, and what you are comfortable with...
It is a little device that causes the back of your neck to burn, or sting when you read something, or someone says something to you. It causes you to go into "defense" mode, and react out of emotion instead of rational actions....
So if she says something, or someone here says something that "stings" a bit...
You might want to take a look at it....
Ok, I think i understand. So if these things I hear make me react defensively, or emotionally, its possible something i need to think more about as it could be that my reaction is because deep down I know its something i need to address? Where as if i just feel neutral about it, its not something i feel strongly about?
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.
