Ok I like the go in with peace attitude....seems to be the best of both worlds. No one likes to have people angry at them, especially those we love. Your emotions are totally valid.
Court is only the opposite to peace if you let it be so and you've already built it into this scary anxiety inducing monster. You can always renegotiate if court does turn out to be totally detrimental to your well being, but you can't renegotiate not going and signing agreement with no courts. If that makes sense lol
