Great advice...I had not included to ask for forgiveness that it might be too pushy, had not read that book yet. I plan to read it to my IC today and get her feedback...ended up not posting it last night because I read some of the 5 languauges of apology....trying to figure out his, I know he spoke of his parents not coming to our wedding and said there are no excuses good enough for what they did...making sure my letter has no excuses or explanations at this time.
