Well, I'm here for you. Anytime you want to vent just come here and rage on but for now at least you do have to keep it to yourself and observe. You knew that this wouldn't be easy. How could it be? Yes the work will be very hard and I can understand your thinking, "will this be worth it?" only you can answer that. I know that you're not sure if she is just trying to keep things as they are but what if she is? Maybe at your counselors meeting this can be brought up and with the counselors help, you can explore why it is that she doesn't want the divorce. Maybe some things will come out that will even surprise her.
Ya know Harv, when I grow up and get married, again, I hope I can find a guy who has half of your sensitivity. Don't sell yourself short. Look how Sadeyez and I fight over sitting on the porch swing with you. There is a reason you know.
I'll keep checking back to make sure your PMA stays way up there!!!
