Welcome, don't have much to say as I am still very new. But I do need to say that what you right pretty well sums up my sitch, so will watch this topic with interest.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
