MOrning Harv!: Well sometimes it seems that when WE make decisions to do what is best for us - that is what prompts THEM to get cold feet. IMHO, I think she is afraid of the D. I don't think she wants to change the status quo. Nobody usually likes change too much. Maybe she is stringing you along, maybe not. This is a really tough time. When you have to really look inside your heart and decide what YOU want. Only you can decide that.
Its not fair to string someone along. Its not fair to put them on a bungee. I think that's what your wife is doing. BUT - if she is willing to continue going to MC, face her issues and trying to make the necessary changes - that is a different ballgame and if I were you - I would wait it out a bit longer. After all this time - what real harm can it do???
I was talking to Ward, he says to say Hi. He is saying a prayer for you.
