Early on after BD I had suspicions of an A. Wrote about it in my journal
Then later wife read the journal and admitted to EA but said there was no
PA. The OM is her supervisor and she won't at this point
Cut off contact. Also she for her at this time she cannot trust and commit
to getting a new place with me. So we decided to separate. I think that
The space away from the chaos will hopefully help me work on
Myself and R with my son.
The main issue I am feeling at this point in time is this.
How do you continue to detach but show that you are willing
To work on the R if they choose to? Lately I have felt that as I
Pull away more my W shuts me out more.

Me-36 W-31
M-7
S-5
BD Dec/12- things were wrong for awhile, head was in the sand

Seeking means: to have a goal
Finding means: to be free, to be receptive, to have no goal