Now I know I am one of the last people on earth to be giving advice in piecing, but, don't get your undies all in a bundle just yet. There's plenty of time to see if this is for real or not.Give it some time before you go trying to figure out her motivation. You have to remember this ain't a cake walk for her either.
I would, however, shortly set some boundries for yourself so you don't reach the point of boiling over and don't feel so doormatish.But hey, what do I know. LOL