Rockjc...i hear you..i really do....but i also think marriage and children are a shared priority. I worked full time and was practically the sole caretaker of the kids. If my H wanted attention...why couldn't he pitch in w things? Who is supposed to bath the kids or do homework w them? If i didn't should i have just ignored the children? If my partner wants someone to watch tv with him why not help w dinner..the dishes...the kids...anything??? My H came home plopped on the couch n left everything for me. I work full time as an administrator of a nursing home. Wouldn't u think i would absolutely love time at night to sit and relax.
me-42 H-41 S-12 S-8 M-15 yr f/o bout OW- 11-29-12 H moved out 10-31-13 Filed for divorce 12-27-13 D- 10-21-14