Sorry to hear about the deceit. Yes, they do need to be called on stuff sometimes. I just try to pick my battles...
If he gets all fired up, just play it cool and state your case. Don't let him turn things around on you, they are experts at that! And don't let him be disrespectful - you deserve to be spoken to properly.
Now is a good time to practice some of those communication skills we were talking about!
Good luck, I will be thinking about you
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."