Originally Posted By: SailingAlone

Just got a text message, asking if I was going to be home. I replied, "why aren't you going out?" -- she replied, yes but wanted to know if I would be home before she left. I replied no. She then sent a text that in that case she'll have the cake with the girls because they are dying to eat it and then she wrote, "See you later. I won't be too long. Love you."

Hmmm ... first time I heard, or in this case, saw the words "love you" from her in a long time. I'm not too excited since she is still going out instead of celebrating with her family. But I'm starting to have greater faith in this 5LL concept. Not sure how I can keep gift-giving though under the circumstances. I'll need to think this through.

My W says/text I love you and XOXO every so often, take it with a grain of salt. I love seeing or hearing that, but then I want to hear it all the time and wonder why she wont say/type it more, so I try to just ignore it.


M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
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