Dearest Harv: This is wonderful news! You must now make this the #1 priority in your life. Give your wife the time and attention she deserves. Maybe she broke up with possible OM, who knows, but her showing interest and agreeeing to go to MC is just what your M needs right now.
Just a suggestion and please don't take offense. You might have to limit your chat and phone time now so that she can trust your sincerity too. I know that you (like the rest of us) have needed the frienship and support you get here. I just don't want her trust to be in jeopardy.
Of course you will need the bb and we will all be here for you. I hope you can read Tony's and some of the other great stories here on piecing and see what has and hasn't worked.
You have been a great friend and I wish you the best. You know you can also email me anytime for advice.
