Your posts are slow to show up b/c you'll be on moderation until you send several. I suggest you send short post often until you're off moderation, then they'll pop up immediately.

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I am initiating the paperwork for a simple divorce


Are you initiating this D in hopes of turning her back to the M?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!