If you had asked me about my posting in Piecing just 72 hours ago, I would have said "impossible, most surely it would be in Surviving". We all but had the papers signed and were well into negotiating the division of property. Daughter26 said that W had told her to stop wasteing her time talking about seeing mc, as there was "no chance" as recently as last Sunday. Then at 3AM Saturday morning as I was having a phone conversation with a very special supportive friend, W came home and said "please" hang up we need to talk". End result of about 24 hours of discussions and tears is that we have decided to try again. I indicated that she had to be absolutely serious about this, that I did not want to get my hopes all up and then have them dashed again. We have no illusions about this. This will be very hard work. We have been at this spot before--although this time we will have the advantage of things learned from the threads here and the support of friends met through these threads.. Very busy right now, but will give updates later. I appreciate all the support that friends here have shown. Harv
