"(maybe read Another Stander's posts again about how unattractive he felt to his wife, who is now different!)" ... where did u specifically read about THAT? TX
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)