That's just it. My W has never been one to initiate.
Neither has mine, so it was that much more of a shock to me when she started doing it. She must have overcome a huge mental roadblock to start that.
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She has been making an effort to be clear that we will "be friends", nothing more. She says she simply doesn't have the feeling of love for me any longer, says it's been gone for a long time and it is too far gone to get it back.
We both need to be reminded to get back to basics now and then Don't believe anything she says and only half of what she does. So she says she just wants to be friends. My W has said the same. It's nothing more than typical WAS script.
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then she gets drunk and stands next to me with her arm around me. It threw everyone for a loop. including me...Just confusing!
It's only confusing because you fell into the trap of believing what she said, right?
Don't believe anything she says and only half of what she does. So she says she just wants to be friends. My W has said the same. It's nothing more than typical WAS script.