okay...so 5 LL...My H's physical touch...how do I show him this? Do I try to touch him, we have not touched since BD and he would not hug me back...I have mentioned at times i want to hug him to which he says nothing...
Do I just start giving him hugs goodbye?
He probably isn't ready for that (which he seems to confirm by not responding to your question). PT is the hardest PLL to address while also DB'ing, but if you're going to try to show PT then do it in non-sexual ways like a touch on the arm or shoulder. I used to think that even that was too much pursuit, but I've since seen this recommended by DB coaches.
