My W seemingly avoided our girls too after BD. I can't count the number of things I have done with just my girls and W didn't want to participate. She has even had opportunities to do things with them without me and has chosen not to. I can't begin to think why she has been like this toward them except for.....
Caution!!!!! Mind reading coming up......... I think she is sooo sad and depressed over work, health, money which all led to BD that she just wants to be left alone. Everything is too stressful. That includes taking two young kids out to do anything. (Talking about my W here).
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.