Thank you all for your assistance... I am 37 and my wife is 36. We have been together for 16 years and married four. My little girl was born 6 weeks premature. 3 lbs at birth. At MC she stated "I dont think I want to be a mommy".
Last night I told her about my daughters questions and my responses and asked her to be consistent with the answers. I also told her that because I was at the house each night - and for consistency- I would be moving to the upstairs bedroom (down the hall from D) and that if my wife wished to stay overnight she would stay in the downstairs guest bedroom.
I just read "Divorcebusting" -"DR" AND "5LL" just arrived from Amazon yesterday (Ordered last friday) One key question. HOW DOES ONE GAL WHEN THE WAS HAS LEFT HER 3YO DAUGHTER BEHIND???? Im assuming that since this just happened that it will become easier to free up time. Right now all I seem to be capable of doing is picking up my wifes slack.
My little girl and I are a team and she is responding AWESOME to me.
I need help with setting boundaries
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
