Pathfinder, they say to not do things to get a response. Do what will make you a better person and hopefully they will notice.
Your W said things were weird. My W has said things along those lines also. I think to myself "no kidding they are weird. Our lives have been turned upside down over the past few months."
Your W seems like she enjoys talking to you so I am not sure what the benefit of going dark would be. Seems like that would just upset her and push her away. I am far from a vet around here and I am still very confused concerning my WAS but I just wanted to put in my thoughts fwiw.
Good luck.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.