The "friendliness" has continued. She has been in our bed for the past several days. She will stay awake and watch TV in bed at night. Even prior to BD she would go to sleep early and not talk much.
Grizz, I'm in the same boat too. I think that in these situations where the WAW is friendly and making such overtures such as ML, touch, etc. , then detaching is more difficult.
Remember that sometimes you should NOT be available to her. For example, in my case I will no longer drop everything for my W. I will continue what I'm doing, or I'll end the conversation to go do something. Last night, she wsa reading on flying in bed and wanted to learn from me, but I was just going to go to sleep. In the past, a more needy me would have discussed with her.
So you need to balance not rejecting her friendly overtures while also BDing.
And I agree, my sitch is much better than many others here, but it is still awful.
