AJ-gotcha

Question on acting as if - for everyone who has experience. I don't want to push him away. I want to get on right now in the hopes that one day we can reconnect. I want to just forget him for right now and sort myself out. I am concerned if I do this too hard, and he does start to come around I will lose him. Any advice on what not to do?


BombOctober 2012-
OW 11/28/12 -H still denies
Separated 11/29/12
Own place 12/12/12
Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13
Oct 2013 - I knew I was done
Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life