I told you I could and would entertain and explore the idea of codependency as it might relate to me and my sitch.
I also told you that I am not interested in attending alanon. I think I said this THREE times.
It seems you interpreted my responses as hostile. Not my intention. I had hoped to come across as firmly saying "No thank you." I was setting a boundary.
Admittedly, I'm lacking in practice at "boundary setting". It seems to have worked slightly better with my H than with you.
But, I'm an optimist so I'll give it another go.
codependent? Maybe, I'll look into it. Thanks for the suggestion.
Alanon or other group or 12 step program? No thank you.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
