The "friendliness" has continued. She has been in our bed for the past several days. She will stay awake and watch TV in bed at night. Even prior to BD she would go to sleep early and not talk much.
Now the other side of the coin. We had been kissing goodbye almost every morning since BD. since W has become much more friendly recently the kisses have stopped. Do I read anything into this? Is she progressing to "just friends"? What would I rather have, kisses with not much friendliness or no kisses but a friendly W?
I think being that close would make it very difficult to detach. For me it would pull me in emotionally fast and hard. I too obsess about all the little things and when and why they do or don't happen, it is not detaching for me. I would try to find a way to detach. (let me know if you do as I haven't be able to yet ;-)
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
