"I agree you're not ready for after LRT. Be kind to yourself."

Yea, it may "feel" like you are ready, but you aren't. Me neither. I'm as detached as I have been this whole process, but I'm not to that place. And it's ok. If we can't accept where we are, then we will never move forward.

Ah those silly OW and what we want them to see/get. They won't. It's futile. They can't see past their noses and it won't give us any satisfaction. I wish it would, but it won't.

Love ya lady!

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D