Pretty hard day. We are distanced. It was his birthday yesterday, I ignored it. I reminded to the kids so they made cards and etc. We were pretty cold this morning at my son's therapist. When the doctor asked how were things between us, the abruptly responded as not well, and not improving, and at one point we needed to make plans. I held my ground. He is certainly the guy I had been married for 15 years. Do I still "not buy" what he is saying or ask him to move out? So hard... Do I at least ask him to move to the guest room or offer him to prepare it for him?
On one hand, seeing him "unnaturally inflexible and stubborn" about giving us a chance, depressed, stressed out, and drinking a lot gives me some weird sense of hope that this is probably a phase (MLC) and will go away eventually. But some days like this make it so difficult to move on with my life. Thank you all for being here...
_________________________ Me: 42 Him: 42 M: 15 years T: 16 S10, D4 H changing since Sept 2011 World exploded 9 Dec 2012
_________________________ Me: 42 Him: 42 M: 15 years T: 16 S10, D4 H changing since Sept 2011, MLC very likely World exploded 9 Dec 2012
