Probably the wrong thing to do but there you have it.
She insists that she's not having an affair with anyone although she admits that her contacting this particular guy is inappropriate.
The talk was ok. I talked too much (as usual) and got upset and she said too little and retreated (albeit not aggressively).
Oh well, back to the drawing board again. The only obvious positive was that I didn't lose my temper. I was calm for the most part and when I got upset I excused myself and went to the bathroom.
This is so, so hard. I just wish I found this site sooner. It took 6 months of telling my story to very unhelpful "ditch the bitch" type of forums before finding this place.
Me: 42 W: 40 M: 18 T: 20 D13 D10 S7 BD: 8/2012 Still living together
