"Let the results speak for themselves"....I here this a lot. I also here "we don't have kids or any reason to see each other so how can the results speak for themselves?". Now, I've made a case for not needing to worry about this and used my relationship as an example - we lived in different countries and that didn't stop her from finding ne, didn't stop me from moving. But, there's a big difference between before the D and after. I don't think I've ever gotten a satisfying response to this question: if the two of you are D, don't have kids, and basically never see each other other than maybe (maybe) bumping into each other at the gym, how does your stuff talk for itself? I'm thinking at some point you are going to have to state your case, no?
