It seems a PMA and positive actions, especially for the kids, might be key here? Her saying she wanted to be paid out and using the D word just made it more painfully concrete.
Yes, I will take some as script and reaction and not push it.
Luke
I agree Luke and in fact it's getting easier and easier for me to have a PMA. The truth is this whole situation has really damaged my wife's relationship with our son. I'm not going to let that happen to my relationship with him.
I still want to reconcile, but if all fails, whilst still taking responsibility for my share of the problems, I know I can walk away from our marriage with dignity and class. That means a lot too me and will mean a lot to our son in the future. I'm sure of it.
W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs 8 year old Son ILYBINILWY - Dec 12 W moved out - Jan 2013 OM - Jan 2013 I file for D - May 2013
