Sitting in the back seat!

[Occy01]

Hi mr2.4. Thanks for posting. I think there are many here who have a hard time staying focused, PMA, and 'act as if', when they are on the rollercoaster. I am just taking it one day, or even hour at a time. I find thinking about the future is very painful just now, so I am trying to live in the now and GAL.

Like me you sound like you are up and down, and feel a little panicked about how well your W is coping, and how its so easy for her and almost matter of fact - for instance, 'i have seen a house i like', 'who is going to keep this when we divorce'etc.

This is one of the hardest things. While I feel like i'm going through hell, W just seems to be carrying on, everything's fine, exciting future, and as you said ' matter of fact'. Although I do believe that this is just ' outward'. I believe she is also worried, sad, regretful and in some pain too. As a WAS I think she needs to validate her decision by showing strength... But then I could be wrong!!

Will read up on your Sitch and get back to you...

You are not alone.