Do whatever helps you preserve your sanity. An IC is a good idea. I am in the same boat as you. I am sure we will be ok in the end though Have a nice day (( ))
Bomb: 4/2009 M28 T32 Sep8 Me: 53, H:57 S20,D17 D papers filed by H: 2013 H didn't follow up with divorce I completely let go ever since