Just wanted to update my sitch, so that I can keep a record of what stbx does.
Monday was D court and when this was adjourned due to his failure to pay CS, stbx spat venom at me.
That night he phoned D17 to ask if he could pick her and her brother up from school next day.
He has not collected the kids since school ended last year, although until this time, he had done it quite regularly.
D17 told him he'd have to speak to the person who usually picks them up and tell her. He said "No".
I got the kids to ring him back and tell him when to collect them.
He was 10 mins late showing up to collect D17 and when he drove her home, he came with her into our house.
Now, he has not been over in months, and has told the kids that he cannot come into the house any more (this has been his reason for not seeing them since Dec last year).
He played a bit with the dogs and stood in the hall for 5 mins, before leaving (without saying "bye" - back to early post-BD behaviour, in this regard).
Later, when he dropped S14 off, stbx came back into the house again...
This time, I asked if he'd seen D17's prom photo in a local magazine's social pages, and when I showed it to him, he just said "I wouldn't even recognise her".
I pointed out some of her childhood friends and said "Doesn't kid X look just like her mum?" To which he replied "Has she got thick ankles too?" (it was a head shot).
Then off he went.
Oh, and in the car on the way home with S14, stbx said "I have to get you a shaver."
S14 replied "You said that in the middle of last year, and you didn't get one".
But, in any case, s14 doesn't even have fluff, let alone whiskers!
