Harder and harder

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I have done a real good job for the last two months.....on sat night-I failed. I came home and there was a brand new toothbrush and hairbrush in her briefcase. That was my trigger. I confronted her.
She claims that she thought I was ok with being roommates because I never said anything about her being out and she thinks I live in fantasy land if I think we can get back together. She stated that when we first went to mc we still had a chance but that everything the mc said just confirmed her feelings-we are not compatible.
She has been gone the last two nights. I have not seen her nor heard from her. This am my 3yo asked me where is mommy, why isn't mommy here, I want mommy and daddy. I told her that mommy is away she is not here and mommy and daddy love her....then I tickled her.
My wife is home tonight and my little angel got to spend a lot of time withher. At what point is one a doormat? She came over and brought her dirty laundry with her. I'm glad my wife is at home .