I think the thing you are missing bblake, is the "indifference" part that Grizz is trying to point out. If she was done, gone, forgotten about me and moved on, she would be indifferent. She isn't, at least not yet. There is "something" still there, good, bad or otherwise. That is the only point I was trying to make. I wasn't mind reading.
I have a phone coaching session tonight. I will journal what Chuck has to say about my sitch. I hope there is something he picks up on from the past month or so...
Good luck on your call!
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy