Thanks gang. My mom went in for tests yesterday. We should know in 7-10 days. She called me yesterday... and I was in the foulest of moods. I need to call her back and apologize.
Interesting - today a mutual friend's daughter turned 10 months today. (This friend in considered x's friend but we always got along great and continue to keep in touch via the FB world).
Anyway - I made a comment on her photo about how big she got and an hour later - x made a similar comment.
Interesting thing - friend tagged us both in a comment back. We are the only ones she responded to specifically. She knows we are divorced and probably knows we don't talk. This girl has been like a sister to x.
I find it odd to include us.. I feel like she or someone is trying to tell me something.
Yes I know I'm mind-reading. Yes it could be nothing... I just wonder.
It's prompting me to take action.. because I'm tired of doing nothing. I posted because it was deserved knowing full well x might comment... and it didn't hurt seeing it.
I have a fun, witty response prepped.. but I struggle with whether I should post it on the thread itself or send it to x.
What about expectations? What about boundaries?
Yes.. yes.. I know!!
But He!! when did become so hard to do something so light and easy???
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
