Busting, Thanks for this feedback; it means a lot to know you are with me.
Re my lawyer - no, I haven't gotten back to him yet. I'd LOVE to - to get his take on what happened.
But I have to limit my meetings with him as there is no money.
I thought that it's really up to stbx's lawyer to contact mine at this stage, given what transpired in court. So I will wait for that and then make an appointment to see my guy.
Just noting how much the day in court took out of me, too.
Yesterday (day after) I had a tension headache, throbbing tooth, and felt like I was wading through molasses all day. Co-incided with one of the biggest deadlines of the year, work-wise - a massive project report that I was lead author on.
But I got through it.
Wanted to say to the team - sorry guys, I've just got to nip out for a couple of hours - I'm being divorced today. But this would have been too bizarre.
