I had felt that too. It's about me and what is good for me. My H is having sex with another woman. I will not sleep with another man because of that. If that opens the door wide enough for your W to go elsewhere, you deserve better. And it's not a love you should miss. I tell myself this everytime I have a thought like that. I deserve more than the scraps he can give. So, if this "makes" him leave, so be it. I deserve better.
Thank you and you are right, you deserve only the best!
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy