"So that said I need to Stop thinking and act, get out of my comfortable, accept my faults and not act on them, learn how to change what I can and get off my a$$."

Take that first step and each step will get easier.
But whatever you do, remember that just because you are taking that step doesn't mean something isn't going to pop up and try to drag you back down. Keep stepping forward!! PMA

M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it