Before I found this website, I gave my W the same ultimatum. To my shock, she chose OM. I had to backtrack because I wasn't really willing to go there.
I am sorry you had to go through that. I also thank you for sharing that with me. Hang in there!
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy