If you can sext get & ML and not have any expectations, then do it. One of my H's complaints is that I had seemed less into sex & not attracted to him. When he was still living here I was ok with having sex & sexting. He even tried a few times since he moved.
He now knows I'm very attracted to him, but then for me and my POM, I needed to set that boundary. It's all a personal choice.
Emotions are just that. Feel them, scream, yell, post here...but don't show them to W. my H has no clue I spent Saturday & Sunday in turmoil. All he sees is a happy, confident T. If I do get teary dropping off my kids and he asks if I'm ok, I say "yep, you know. It's hard to leave them until the silence kicks in :)"
You can do this!!! GAL big time!
to be honest, another fear is if I stop sexting and having sex, it will open the door "wider" for her to get it elsewhere
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
