I consider my W had an EA while physically separated. The OM then made a pass at her and she broke it off. I believe she had another one while separated under same roof.
Mach1. Yes and know I see your frustrations. [quote=PowerOfNow] JP. You need to stop immediately focusing on your W. Please do this for yourself. I understand you are in panic mode. The more you panic the more you push her further away.
Thank you, I am trying
Originally Posted By: PowerOfNow
You gave up the passwords. That is GREAT. You can't control if she is having another EA.
What I use to do when I couldn't sleep was get up at 545 am and goto the gym and workout for 2 hours so at night I was so dead tired I could sleep. I also did CHI GONG breathing every night. See if you can find a local Raike or Chi Gong specialist in your area.
Good advice, I go to the gym, yet need more.
Originally Posted By: PowerOfNow
You must GAL every night. Do not worry if your W is cheating or not. She is going to do what she is going to do.
Originally Posted By: PowerOfNow
Are you still under the same roof? IF so I would come home and do father duties and then split after.
No thank God, we are S, if we were under the same roof we would have been D by now. Imagine how bad I come across on here, let alone living with W, I was a lost puppy and clung to her bad.
Originally Posted By: PowerOfNow
You are on what we call the "net hamster" wheel. I made this a DB forum phrase. You are only skimming posts and missing valuable information. You are so CODEPENDANT on your W right now you are making yourself ill
I know this and am feeling the effects of it.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
