Is it too soon to give up hope?

[2ndtimearoundCA]

Thank you for the support Sandi. I have posted in the newcomers forum with no responses lately. I have been sending friendly emails to w about dividing stuff because she is beginning to move out. I am initiating the paperwork for a simple divorce that gives her everything that she wants. I am hoping that pulling away may draw her back to me but I am very skeptical. I think that her new man is exciting to her and that is going to last for a while. After she moves out, we will have no reason to speak ever again. We will just have to sign final papers. I just don't know what else I can do now.