Interesting text. I'm going to give my spin on it. Mlcers do remember dates that have impacted them emotionally but they generally do not say much about them. However, I think your xh was testing the waters to see how you feel now about the divorce after two years. Sounds like he's been doing some thinking if he made a point of texting you about the date.
I think you handled it very well and in a very nice way told him that you hadn't given the date any thought.
He's one special mlcer! I don't know too many that would remind the lbs of the date. LOL!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
