I definately don't think working more is in the best interest of my kids. We Areca ways off from school, and I'd prefer to continue to only work 2 days a week. My kids don't need any more change.
That's logical. Just don't be surprised if a judge disagrees with you WRT to your working schedule.
Originally Posted By: Tallula
I am willing to work, of course. And working more days isn't about getting the most or anything, it's more that if I work more to finance my H's need to live in an expensive apartment have cable we don't even have... Only to then get less CS. In my state CS is figured out by total household income & then time spent with each parent. I would live for H to spend more time with the kids, but that isn't what is happening.
IMHO, you shouldn't have to pay for anything for H and his apartment. He's the one who wanted it and had the A, should be his responsibility.
Originally Posted By: Tallula
My goal is to be fair if this ends, but I tend to be too accommodating. I could manage in our house with CS & my 2 days. I haven't even thought of SS.
You need to look out for you and the kids - which you appear to do a good job of. Especially if his track record with spending quality time with the kids isn't stellar. After last week, it's admirable you still want to be fair. Not many would be...
