Oh, I meant I could manage to live off of CS & my 2 days. Not here in our house.

2 months ago I started working an extra day a month & it's actually been hard on my kids that week. I know they will be just fine if I have to work fulltime eventually. You have to do what you have to do. But, my main thing is to not add more days to simply finance H in this apartment to end up losing CS if we D & I wanted to go back down to 2 days a week. Especially with a newborn.

Honestly, the guy needs to live in someone's damn basement or something. His expenses are high. His rent on a 1 bedroom is only $300 less than our mortgage!!


M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D