My wife's B-day is tomorrow. I bought her a present because her love language is gift-giving, and since we're living together cordially my DB coach and myself see doing this as making sense.
I also had all 3 of our kids make her cards too.
Her B-day is also the first day of what is a Wed evening sailboat racing series that I participate in. So my plan was:
1. give her the B-day gift in the morning 2. buy a cake Wed. morning, leave it at house and tell D12 what to do. 3. go to the sailing race and return home about 7:30pm
Is this too much? I have this conundrum of how to balance distancing by not giving gifts with her primary love language of gift giving -- which is something that I was not good at.
