Makes sense, we all have some form of unreasonable fear. We have fought quite a bit at times, but I've realized anger is only counterproductive when acted on. With our S in the picture I really want things to work out the best way possible.
You know, at BD I was anxious for her to see that leaving wasn't a quick fix and that the grass wasn't particulary greener. I realize know that I was in a sense looking for a quick fix myself, thinking that it would push her back towards me. Instead we both make less money, spend less time with S and have more logistiks. It breaks my heart for S to be in the midst of this and for me not to see him on a daily basis, but now I realize she probably deals with the same feelings. Still, we need to work through our own issues.
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.
