CPTDAD...I see your signature includes RetroV (maybe)... in the same boat and hoping y'all make it as we're scheduled this weekend as well, but I still think it's a coin flip if she's going to go through with it. We started MC two weeks ago and there's been a lot of soul searching already.... We're in the 4th week of separation and I'm truly happy with how much my eyes have been opened to my contribution into our mess and excited about working on me for me.... Still hit the pity party all the time, but less frequently.... Two beautiful kids that keep me going everyday.....